Ever felt like all your relationships are the same? That no matter how different they start they always seem to end the same. You must be at that point where you’re starting to think all men/women are the same right? Or you could be that real decent and oh so rare “starting with the man/woman in the mirror” type that starts thinking they might be the problem. I mean, YOU are the common denominator in all this afteral.
Well in truth you are but that doesn’t necessarily mean you’re at fault. The thing is, many people will only have one relationship in their lives. Two if they’re lucky. Yes you read me right, it is all just one relationship with a series of different partners.
See, everyone has that one relationship they can never forget. That one relationship where, at its height, everything was perfect, he/she was the perfect girlfriend/boyfriend and even though it ended she/he is the standard by which every partner or potential partner is judged. People will be in this relationship until that one partner comes along, you know, the one that comes and “Hits them with the futuristic” and absolutely changes their whole view on relationships. Only then, when their mind gets so blown it finally awakens to the fact that the perfect relationship is what you make of it. Simply put, we carry the expectations, shortcomings and insecurities of that one relationship to every single relationship we get into next until we finally have this awakening. Only then, does the move onto relationship number TWO occur. And if all goes well, this could be their last or the first of many amazing experiences.
Take a look at your situation, if you’re constantly being compared, or a previous partner is constantly being referenced … Well my Guy/Gurl … You are just another hopeful contestant trying out for the lead in a relationship that isn’t yours. If you find that you’re constantly referencing your best relationship yet, bruh/babe … Give the other child a break n stop wasting their time. The real question here is, if they were so perfect that everybody else has to be better than them to stand any chance at a fair shot … Why the FUDGE are they not HERE?
If you can’t find the answer to this question, I’ll give it to you.(And you have options) They were either:
1. Not Perfect or
2. You weren’t good enough.
Sooo, now that we’ve cleared the air, how about you just be a decent human being (Pull that stick out your …) and
1. Be ALONE till you get over yourself and your Bull$#!t childish issues. OR
2. Just show the person who obviously thinks you’re worth their time some love.